I've been an off/on user of Soulpancake for about a year and some if it can be pretty hit or miss. You get unlucky and you get some jerk that doesn't want to discuss anything but just wants to rail against you and be rude because they think it is funny. I love the idea of it though. Now to answer the question about what helps connect people deeply, I think it is honesty. Honesty about all things. It is something you sense almost immediately in a relationship. Is this person holding back, or not saying something, or saying something when they really don't believe in it. The best relationships I have had disagreements about subjects were often times the funnest part, if that person was being honest. Learning how that person thinks, letting them learn how you think, it is something that is really a lost thing unfortunately.

Out of all the videos I've viewed on this site I have to see these people have me the most intrigued and I can see with all honesty I'll be visiting the soulpancake wesbsite very soon.

The Soul Pancake website is so addictive. I'm excited to see what the book has in store! Great editing on this piece, too!